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We have the blessing of having so many wonderful relationships that have come about in our lives, not just in the business world but in the personal world. Here is just some of them:

Before you go get all pissy on me, yes that picture of Jesus was not politically correct or anything of that nature. But what it was is what it got to get you the idea. Our relationship to Christ has truly transform us as individuals, it has brought good value in our lives. So I couldn’t discount that relationship even though in your mind, He may not be a physical person, things of that nature anymore. So again, just disregard that picture in the sense of it not may be politically correct in our life, but still a good concept that you want to get across that you knew that relationship was important to us, 

But some of these relationships come and go like seasons in our life. To everything, there is a season and, in that season, sometimes it’s very short season and just for a moment. Other times it’s a very long season – days, weeks, months even years. 

I have some friendships that have endured the test of time. We have been separated by thousands of miles, yet we can still pick up the phone or pick an email, and it’s as though we’ve never missed a beat. Our relationship is still intact because we understand our relationship. We understand our value to the other person, and we understand what we bring to the other person. And so, recognizing the power of relationship is what empowers us, what strengthens us, what gives us fuel, what driving and pushing us to recognize the value in our own lives in what we are trying to do. But also, the value in other’s lives. 

Why are we here? What are we here to do? Is it just to sit on the coach and eat chips and watch movies and just exists? Or is there more to it?

I would challenge you this day that there is definitely more to it. Just nod in there if you think so and you can say no – it’s your opinion and you’re welcome to it. This is an opportunity for you to give it. I want you to feel confident that you can do so.

I would like to challenge you today to look at your relationships and look at each one as an individual. Are they bringing good into your life and value? Or they bringing negative and draining and pulling you down and things of that nature. If the answer is negative, I would encourage you to seek a different outlet. Maybe consider not spending as much time in that relationship. If it’s good, maybe consider spending more time. Looking at your own scenario and the value that it brings.

The other thing I would encourage you is send a Thank You note. In this day in age, we don’t say thank you enough to the people that have impacted our lives. Yeah, we think of them after were dead but who cares when you’re dead that someone is thankful you don’t get to hear it. Tell them now.

I know teachers that have made a huge impact in my life. Someone who said a kind word to me on a day that I was having just a horrible, tremendous day. And they were kind enough. So just stop and say, “Are you okay?” Simple things like that. Simple acts of kindness, when given at the right moment, can be powerful. So we want to say thank you and we want to recognize that.

This day, let me challenge you this day. We’re going to pay up forward in our relationship that we might empower each other through this relationship. And in doing so, all of us will be stronger and better for it. And I can’t wait to hear what it is that you’re gonna do, and what it is that you do. Sometimes recognizing and saying thanks can be the most empowering of all. Because that other person may have needed it more than you know. And you don’t know how it can boost their spirits. So take the time to say thank you to those important people in your life. But also if there is no value in there, maybe recognizing spending a little less time. That your value might continue to grow and explode and be very impactful in society. That we would all be incredibly grateful that you’re here in this planet, and that we’re all part of it. Again, be thankful and be grateful. And I hope you all have a fantastic day!